tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post2763685983076025838..comments2023-09-06T02:35:01.994-07:00Comments on SutterInk: LITTLE SELFAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06050973510165942367noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-14585008606764534802011-09-06T10:49:47.166-07:002011-09-06T10:49:47.166-07:00Sir K
On the NIGHT of YOUR S4 Premier, hundreds...Sir K<br /><br /> On the NIGHT of YOUR S4 Premier, hundreds of thousands of Folks , from all walks of Life are waiting to see YOU!<br /><br />NO , You say, They want THE SHOW! <br /><br />AH HA, At this Point , isnt the SHow and U , one and the same? .<br /><br />SOA is the By Product of YOUR Vision and frankly the Only way we can access Who U may be.<br /><br />You've built walls, that Must exist, I guess, to Keep Stars Safe...but Apart from Average JOes.<br /><br />If you sense Your work is followed, But not YOU, how can we know you ?<br /><br />I like Your Youtube Q and A, but there again , the questions are about the SHOW.<br /><br />You give us Water , without anything to drink it from.... We need to see the container KURT, being YOU<br /><br />Perhaps this is WHY Michael Jackson was tragically Misunderstood and Mis read, and MIs Everything.<br /><br />He chose Isolation from others Made Him An Island Unto Himself. I am a Rock , I am an Island." Very fitting here.<br /><br />He floated further away from those that loved , and thought, by Isolating myself , it will yield a Mysterious Persona that would increase his fan base.<br /><br />It DID, but His Heart was breaking in that Process. <br /><br />I say, if you want US, the World to Know YOu the MAn , not the Writer, then brillliant as you are, tell someone at Inside the Actors Studio or some thing , you are ready to be REVEALED "apart from your work.<br /><br />Then watch as the audience floods u with questions about YOU, why and what causes U to love and what U hate etc..<br /><br />Michael Jackson had finally Isloated him so much from his family and peers , that in the end, HE DIDNT EVEN KNOW himself? SAD LOSS.<br /><br />As Gemma said to Unser: Id Hate To See You LOst" <br /><br />Kurt , If U feel that You are "Not Followed as a Person" and loved for your work , think in terms of Interview w a Vampire .<br /><br />He longed to connect again to Humans, but was separated by the LOSS of his Own Humanity <br /><br />Well Kurt, only You , can come up with a More Insightful way , for the World to know You. <br /><br />You do the You Tube thing but here again , You read and answer questions about Your work ,not You.<br /><br />Devote an hour, an improved Truthful Peek into yourself and KAtey could be your Journalist cause u trust her not to slide you a dagger disguised. <br /><br />Called "THE SUTTER REVEAL: Meet the MAn , Not the Creator. <br /><br />Now thats HOT , id watch that INterview over and over. Your fans would too, this would ne HUGE.<br /><br />Otherwise, u will forever be known as the Creator of SOA for 7 seasons . <br /><br />Appear on Inside The Actors Studio or some other indepth Look at the MAn behind SOA.<br /><br />Selective questions are Aimed at revealing YOU, giving fans info enough to dig You the persom <br /><br />"So we were left to Love thy Book, when all We wanted was just One LOOK" <br />by Davia DavisDAVIA Davisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-87415786958057586302011-09-05T13:53:53.594-07:002011-09-05T13:53:53.594-07:00Sir K
Seeing that each one of us is UNIQUELY and ...Sir K<br /><br />Seeing that each one of us is UNIQUELY and Divienly maDE, WE must recognize we were also made to Be different.<br /><br />All of us are flawed, Excited, excitable, Moved to Words or fall Silent for long periods of time, <br /><br />Go from 0 -10 in 2 seconds, OR some times, the Simpliest of Jokes Fly right over our heads.<br /><br />One trick is there is TONS TONS of Humanity ONce we Learn we are in fact Human, not what Others expect , But rather what WE expect of Ourselves .<br /><br />Our contributions are measured in the scope of Lessons Learned....as for ESME, Once a person Learns to Embrace the Good Bad and Ugly of of who they are , AND LOVE THEMSELVES DeSPITE Anway.<br /><br />Once You've arrived there ( and i think the fact you're even meditating on the importance of who YOU are speaks Volumes. <br /><br />But always KNOW, that "Into each Life, a Little Rain Must Fall" .<br /><br />It is Our response to that rain or trouble , that Defines US and the Life and Love U create ,regardless.<br /><br /><br />Stay well KDavia Davisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-16983471243221393362011-09-01T06:46:49.305-07:002011-09-01T06:46:49.305-07:00Thanks for this insightful post. As a (childless) ...Thanks for this insightful post. As a (childless) young educator I often worry that the parents of my students aren't paying ENOUGH attention, but this perspective of yours made me a tad bit less judgmental. It's not news to me that parenting is a rough gig (in grad school I was a nanny and that sh*t is tough), but the notion of growing up to be a grown up for your kids is something I will contemplate for at least the rest of the day. Thanks.Kaitlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15821367638562246802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-8637291934514016382011-08-28T20:20:35.809-07:002011-08-28T20:20:35.809-07:00Most people didnt listen to me when I was a kid ei...Most people didnt listen to me when I was a kid either. I was an only child so I learned that talking to myself and keeping to myself was beneficial for me at a young age. As I got older I craved that attention I didnt get as a kid and acted out. I've always been an honest, semi neurotic, self soothing human being.<br /><br />So now that I have kids I find myself looking at them strangely when they need my attention or have an idea. I really HATE that my automatic response is to dismiss them like I was when I was their age. And then I think I try too hard to make up for being such a bitch to them. <br /><br />I'm lucky to have a hubby who's sort of in the middle of crazy and half asleep. He sort of keeps me aware of my lack of attention toward my kiddos. No parent wants to fuck their kids up ( if they're a good parent anyway) and I truly believe we all try our hardest to show love. For me, my kids keep me grounded and sane. I'm sure I'd be nowhere if it weren't for my daughter. Kuddos to the kiddos!Heather R Alexanderhttp://www.hcbyheatherjewelry.etsy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-54509562856819886722011-08-27T14:21:11.190-07:002011-08-27T14:21:11.190-07:00It is good to see that you are concerned about how...It is good to see that you are concerned about how you raise your children, and that you are willing to subject yourself to scrutiny to see that it may not be the childs fault. Yes kids give us the opportunity to work shit out. It is funny I was just talking to a friend of mine about this the other day. She said something of the same thing. I think it is good to see that celebrity fathers feel the same as us in the general population. We want the best for our kids & yet we all struggle due to how we were raised or what we percieved while growing up. Then when we do grow up we do not realize how childish we are being until we examine how we are raising our own or we see something that reminds us about our own childhood.<br /><br />It is good to see that you are willing to find ways to help you with that instead of just muddling along and making the same mistakes that your parents, or adults in your life, did while growing up.<br /><br />Of course it does not mean your nonattentive, & your not going to fuck her up, if anything the media will do that all by itself. It will not be you or her to blame on that. The thing is it is hard enouph to rasie children but to be in the spot light as yourself it is more difficult to define what she needs and what she really needs. I think that is the biggest struggle any celeb has. Yea they grew up but unless your in the spotlight as a child and you watched your parents handle things you really do not know how to handle things. Even then they may have handled things differantly than what today standards are. So not only are you raising a child but your having to raise a media savvey child as well. The things we as normal general population can do and take for granted; go out to a club, dancing, hiking, biking, shopping as a celebrity or children of celebrities that is not so simple especially today. The media is ALL OVER and they have no respect for your private space, now it may have been there before but not as strong as it is now. <br /><br />Hang in there Kurt, you'll make it and be blessed with the fact that you at least are willing to admit, that you need help with your child unlike some celebs that should have gotten that help a hell of a long time ago. I could name a few but I will keep that to myself.<br />Good luck and keep us posted, she certainly is a wonderful & beautiful girl.lady_marblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00124282376659754652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-90780595213120091512011-08-26T06:15:31.348-07:002011-08-26T06:15:31.348-07:00I'd actually love to see some of these issues ...I'd actually love to see some of these issues around how the heck you raise decent kids come out in SOA as the seasons go on...<br /><br />I did a course called the 'circle of security'. It was really helpful for me in picking up some of the stuff which I was missing around patience and knowing when to comfort/when to challenge kids. Also they pointed out you only needed to get it right 30% of the time which was reassuring to here.arh-pea-seenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-66056760969139764782011-08-23T22:00:17.067-07:002011-08-23T22:00:17.067-07:00I love to read your blog for your profane hilariou...I love to read your blog for your profane hilarious rants and for updates on SOA - the best show of all time, thank you for sharing your brilliance with us, no I am not being sarcastic in any way. So this entry gave me pause and in a weird way I feel like you are giving voice to this little part of my soul that I try to ignore. I don't have kids and while I try to explain this by saying 1) we are too busy, 2) we are too selfish, 3) (fill in the blank) - I think deep down there I have a HUGE fear that I am going to fuck up any kids that I produce. Because although I try to be successful in career and friendships and romatic relationships, really I am just a totally insecure, freaked out kid. So Kurt thank you for your honesty. And I don't think you will fuck up your daughter.Rachelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-46858233242114998412011-08-22T16:31:41.950-07:002011-08-22T16:31:41.950-07:00I also wanted to add that we influence our kids so...I also wanted to add that we influence our kids so easily too, most of the time without knowing. I somehow passed on my fear of clowns and freaky dolls, now I try to remain calm and keep my mouth shut with the spiders and snakes and whatever else my son finds interesting. <br />It can be really scary and sometimes intense to think that we are molding them as a person and everything we do can influence their personality. <br />All kids want is to have fun, be loved and be happy.<br />Having said all that, I have no idea how I got pedophobia and coulrophobia.....maybe 'Chucky' and 'It', never did well with horrors!!Librarychic1https://www.blogger.com/profile/00804914126942866710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-43895658177209975292011-08-22T09:22:05.150-07:002011-08-22T09:22:05.150-07:00Love them, include them in your life, listen to th...Love them, include them in your life, listen to them and give them rules to follow. Don't spoil, coddle or be overly protective. Don't try to be perfect, if kids don't experience a little disappointment, frustration, or injustice, they won't have the skills to deal with adversity as adults. Don't over think it! It's not that friggin' hard!<br /><br />Love the show... Your parents might have fucked you up as a person, but you're a friggin' creative genius as a writer/producer. AND, your openness and honesty are refreshingly human in fantasy land. You don't seem crazy to the real people who enjoy your work.John Cardinallihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149785260423467899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-36214199861739876022011-08-22T08:52:33.570-07:002011-08-22T08:52:33.570-07:00My father died 33 years ago and I still miss him e...My father died 33 years ago and I still miss him every day. These are the things he did right, that continue to stand out in my memory:<br /><br />- He loved my mom like crazy;<br /><br />- He expected me, encouraged me, demanded me to be as smart as my (extremely smart) brothers;<br /><br />- During my most awkward phase of adoloscence, he told me I looked like the Venus de Milo. He actually used those words, and they still keep me alive. (My arms are fine, BTW)<br /><br />Remind Katey and Esme how smart/beautiful they are, every single day, and you won't fuck it up too muchAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-51883461151240452942011-08-21T18:22:31.476-07:002011-08-21T18:22:31.476-07:00I can't get my head around Shrinks...I know no...I can't get my head around Shrinks...I know no-one that see's one, or anyone that has seen one! Do they only live in the USA? If I need to 'Shrink' my head I go for a long quiet sail.Eden Bondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13656833954190982726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-78780070783260592862011-08-21T07:39:22.248-07:002011-08-21T07:39:22.248-07:00Good morning Mr. Sutter. I wanted to comment about...Good morning Mr. Sutter. I wanted to comment about your 8/17/11 post specifically and all your posts in general. You are one of my favorite people in the whole wide world. I think you are extremely intelligent, even if you are seriously angry and damaged, just like me. I have no doubt that nothing in this country will change for the better, be it TV, politics, corporate, etc, until EVERYBODY says ENOUGH, and starts telling it like it is, the truth, like you do. Fuck political correctness. We all see where that has gotten us, seriously fucked in the ass. PLEASE never stop being real, telling the truth, and unafraid to tell those full of shit to 'Do The Right Thing Motherfucker', and if necessary to "Suck My Dick". I'm a woman, but I say the same thing.<br />GOD BLESS you and yours.<br />Madge Penelope Morgan<br />SOA fan forever.Madge Penelope Morgannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-22282143307079566612011-08-21T05:08:29.674-07:002011-08-21T05:08:29.674-07:00That struck a chord! had to go visit "self&qu...That struck a chord! had to go visit "self" whilst having CBT that missing piece of the jigsaw, and thanks I never really understood why I crashed after my girls were born, turns out I brought myself up from the age of 5. The hardests thing in my life was writing a letter to my 5 yr old self forgiving "me" a right headfuck now I just have the guilt of maybe's <br />thanks another piece of the jigsaw placed!Mugwumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403890566847213499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-83759646062247265162011-08-20T22:44:54.899-07:002011-08-20T22:44:54.899-07:00Whenever you mention Esme, I think of J.D. Salinge...Whenever you mention Esme, I think of J.D. Salinger's short story. "For Esmé - with Love and Squalor" is an Army sergeant's recollection of a meeting he had with a young girl, Esmé, before he was sent into combat. According to Wikipedia, Lack of purity and innocence in the adult world, love of childhood itself, and the power of words and writing are among the story's themes. Were you inspired by this story to name your daughter, Esme? Whether you were or not, maybe rereading the story will help you understand a little about the difference between who you are, who your daughter is, who you hope she will be, and the fact that the kid is probably 10x smarter now than you will ever be. The fact that you are mulling all this over so early in her life is encoraging. We'll talk again when she's 16.Denise Sheltonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-72289936967416851752011-08-20T05:54:22.277-07:002011-08-20T05:54:22.277-07:00You're the dark side of Louis CK.You're the dark side of Louis CK.Cavuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04540455697863184758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-79506707711142565642011-08-20T00:10:10.128-07:002011-08-20T00:10:10.128-07:00I know life is going good and it seems to be nuts ...I know life is going good and it seems to be nuts at times, but are you thinking about another show to wright other then SOA, am I have to say I am happy you say sutter the right way to, I hear people say it like there is an o in it, just remember your kids are there for you and your wife, I know you must have a real true friend from your past that you could talk to, life can be hard but it sure would suck if everything was easy, and if you ever want to talk from one Sutter to another Sutter, and I am a real Sutter from the same blood line, but just remember don't trip off the little shit go play a 360 game with your kids and make a day of just you and your wife and kids and just say "fuck it" just for a day, it may put you in a better place, or how about this go and get a rockband game and all of you can try to play and have a bbq after, it is just a thought I do like the show and all my family loves it to, just remember we all are not going to live forever so take some time for your self Sutter.Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05939703790709243836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-48386433054107815612011-08-19T19:35:23.319-07:002011-08-19T19:35:23.319-07:00"the right side of happy"
Isn't th..."the right side of happy" <br /><br />Isn't that what we all want? <br /><br />Good on you for doing this for her. <br /><br />Good on you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-88355809031255875882011-08-19T17:01:13.247-07:002011-08-19T17:01:13.247-07:00you are so honest and it just makes your work look...you are so honest and it just makes your work look even more real and coming from a good place. nobody is perfect, so no one has the right to judge ones behavior but yourself. i think the fact that you dont old back the truth will bring you more fans than haters.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-47015482248832672692011-08-19T15:47:18.509-07:002011-08-19T15:47:18.509-07:00Shit you could be kid rocks living fucking twin, b...Shit you could be kid rocks living fucking twin, by looks and mind =) and i mean that like a sincere complimentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-2160841561609834942011-08-19T15:26:25.744-07:002011-08-19T15:26:25.744-07:00The reputation that you have in the world is vastl...The reputation that you have in the world is vastly different from the reputation you have with your children. I've never parented. The closest I've come is God parenting. And being an aunt. <br /><br />I've had counseling off and on for years, dealing with fears of ending up like my birth mum. That's a book in itself, won't bore you with it here. <br /><br />Suffice it to say, I like to think that all parents want the best for their kids, and for their kids to have a better life then the parents had. Yet, sometimes it's hard for parents not to pass along some of the same lessons they were taught that can mess with a young un's mind later in life. <br /><br />That you WANT to be a better person for your daughter says a lot about you as a parent, and as a person. I respect that. It's why I respect you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05079996239876187652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-59894651748848049922011-08-19T13:26:24.469-07:002011-08-19T13:26:24.469-07:00I think it is refreshing to read about a father so...I think it is refreshing to read about a father so aware of his past and how it is affecting his parenting style. Parenthood is and always will be the most difficult thing anyone does. I have never thought about it, but it does give us a chance to work out our own issues that we were faced with as children. Sounds like you want to make sure your daughter not only has a voice but IS actually heard. Do not worry about "fucking her up" you're her father and as long as you love her and do the best you can that is all anyone can ask. "I will do better tomorrow." That is what I tell myself when I dont handle a situation well or lose my patience with my children. Think you're an amazing artist and your work is mind blowing and just at times brilliant. Best to you.Laura Federicohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18225056138128464406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-26293300146258179042011-08-19T13:06:21.628-07:002011-08-19T13:06:21.628-07:00Please hear me out and dont dismiss me like anythi...Please hear me out and dont dismiss me like anything im saying isnt the truth or something, sugarcoated, because none of it is, and i have had just as much problems as you have had in your lifetime... Been at the brink of suicide so many times that you have no idea pal, psychotic so many times... <br /><br />I really wish you the best and i can tell you are one of the few people understanding the simple way of life and the simple lessons of life that so easily go un noticed in todays society we live in, information overflow comes too a point where nobody can handle it, the smarter you are the harder you fall, and i really believe that the more flawed a person is, the smarter hes gonna become if he manages to rise up every time... <br /><br />Be well everybody and all you can do is care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-39488069223088274952011-08-19T12:48:21.844-07:002011-08-19T12:48:21.844-07:00Have you ever been diagnosed as Bi-Polar? My siste...Have you ever been diagnosed as Bi-Polar? My sister is and boy do you fit the profile ! I can't help w/ the unresolved issue, because my list is probable longer than yours, but it is wonderful that you are taking responsibility to make any effort for your child ! I wish there were more people like you so that our children can lead and live happy normal lives ! <3 Brandi GerrenaBrandi Gerrenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13773371821111136063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-37300053243269310062011-08-19T12:23:22.030-07:002011-08-19T12:23:22.030-07:00The thing that most adults don't realise is ho...The thing that most adults don't realise is how much damage we can do to kids and not only how that damage affects them as kids but how it can fuck them up for the rest of their lives. People always think that when things kick off at home or whatever that the kids are too young, they won't understand, they wont remember in time etc. Or they put off trying to spend time with them because they are scared that they will repeat the same relationship they had with their parents so they replace time etc with material possessions etc. Well listen up people! all that is BS. Most kids are affected by so much more than we realise. (Trust me, I work with these kids, I know).<br /><br />As someone who has, well, lets just call them "daddy issues", it pisses me off, even now, that he never made/makes one fucking effort to change and its a hate that is difficult to deal with. Your always going to make mistakes with kids and fuck up but it means so much more to them that you give them time, take an interest in what they do and listen. Do that then they know that you love them and anything else is pretty much fogiveable.<br /> <br /><br />Very few people are as insightful as you Kurt, to be able to reflect on themselves and not only see potential problems or concerns in their parenting skills but actually go and get help for it. <br /><br />As someone who has tried to go and get help for some of their own issues I can appreciate how difficult that is. In my profession I am also surrounded by people who just can't make that first step and I don't mean this to sound partronising but the fact that you did it is highly commendable and speaks volumes about your charachter (way more than some rant over something that pissed u off somewhere or whatever!.)<br /><br />Esme is a very lucky little girl! I wish half the kids I know were as fortunate. xAmandanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6108759479938339169.post-26255471918674862722011-08-19T12:10:14.091-07:002011-08-19T12:10:14.091-07:00kate sings truth...sometimes your skill set is you...kate sings truth...sometimes your skill set is your skill set...and the role is the role...whether it resonates is pretty much out of your hands..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com